You are not going to stay happy or content unless you have a healthy and caring relationship with your loved one. Sometimes you might need help to improve the quality of your relationship to make it last. There is a big difference between a marriage and a relationship but to maintain the marriage you need to have a healthy relationship. Anyone can get married but it takes a lot of work to stay “happily married”.
A relationship is what a couple start to have when they confess there feelings for each other and make some sort of commitment to each other. A relationship is what should happen long before marriage.
Some people can tell just by watching a couple interact with one another whether or not they need help with there relationship. It is usually easier for an outside source to see a need for help than it is for the couple to see.
Some other signs that your relationship needs a bit of help might be that you are constantly bickering with each other over stupid petty things. You could be at the other end of the spectrum and not say anything to each other. You could also find the other person boring or annoying to talk to after so long in the relationship.
You could have a serious lack of interest in the other person including sexual activities. The spark is just not there and you might even be fantasizing about other people.
There are so many issues that can affect a relationship negatively and another one can be debt. Not having enough money can really bring a person down especially if you have kids. If one or the other overspends, the relationship will suffer because the stress that those bills can cause are too much.
If you are experiencing any of these issues you should not ignore them because it can ruin the relationship. It may “force” the other person to be unfaithful or make them hold back affection towards you.
All relationship have their problems and these are to be expected but you can take control by getting a bit of help from an expert. It is never a bad thing to ask for help and make adjustments and move forward. Sometimes that is all it takes to develop a better relationship so give it a try if you feel it may help.